Good for you. It would be a loss to Xanga, and a loss to me personally. I would miss you terribly.
Right on. Why should he think he has the right to hide the way you feel (from yourself, from others, from him...)?
As with everything, there *are* two sides to the story, but he comes across as someone that doesn't really know how to be in an equal relationship (and doesn't really want to try and learn how to pull it off).
I guess there is this question floating around now... Why are you two still together? What in the relationship *is* worth saving?
I'm glad you'll be staying. Hope you get this business resolved to everyone's satisfaction. Well, your everyone's that is.
Good For you Girlfriend!!!
I guess you won't have to make him sammies anymore, eh?
you go, girl.
You know what? Your life is all about YOU. Not all about HIM. Just the bits and pieces I've read are enough to make me HURL CHUNKS.
Love should always be bigger than ego or pride. If he must ALWAYS be 'right', then he is Mr. WRONG.
hallelujah! My eternal point exactly.
Don't you dare leave!! My life would have a huge empty spot, that special place where strong, funny and sarcastic surviving women live....glad you are hangin in...
No one can make me leave. I may leave on my own one day. But, it won't be because anyone MADE me leave! My husband used to be a little jealous of Xanga. Now he writes, too!
Hurrah, Huzza and ditto to all of the above!
It takes courage and stamina to hurt and still play the game.
Steve
I hope it's not too late to post............. I am glad you are not going. Don't allow yourself to be silenced.
When you give up your voice you give up boundaries. You can't set them you can't defend them and the longer you go after being silenced you will have a harder time getting back what you have built for yourself. Clear as mud?
Besides, I have a selfish motive, I like hearing your point of view and use it as a sounding board against all my own crazy notions.
I feel bad for you. Your luck of late has been really crappy. If I had a fourleaf clover I would send you one. In time it will get better. (this sounds like a bunch of cheesey crap but at least you know people care)
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Good for you. It would be a loss to Xanga, and a loss to me personally. I would miss you terribly.
Right on. Why should he think he has the right to hide the way you feel (from yourself, from others, from him...)?
As with everything, there *are* two sides to the story, but he comes across as someone that doesn't really know how to be in an equal relationship (and doesn't really want to try and learn how to pull it off).
I guess there is this question floating around now... Why are you two still together? What in the relationship *is* worth saving?
I'm glad you'll be staying. Hope you get this business resolved to everyone's satisfaction. Well, your everyone's that is.
Good For you Girlfriend!!!
I guess you won't have to make him sammies anymore, eh?
you go, girl.
You know what? Your life is all about YOU. Not all about HIM. Just the bits and pieces I've read are enough to make me HURL CHUNKS.
Love should always be bigger than ego or pride. If he must ALWAYS be 'right', then he is Mr. WRONG.
hallelujah! My eternal point exactly.
Don't you dare leave!! My life would have a huge empty spot, that special place where strong, funny and sarcastic surviving women live....glad you are hangin in...
No one can make me leave. I may leave on my own one day. But, it won't be because anyone MADE me leave! My husband used to be a little jealous of Xanga. Now he writes, too!
Hurrah, Huzza and ditto to all of the above!
It takes courage and stamina to hurt and still play the game.
Steve
I hope it's not too late to post............. I am glad you are not going. Don't allow yourself to be silenced.
When you give up your voice you give up boundaries. You can't set them you can't defend them and the longer you go after being silenced you will have a harder time getting back what you have built for yourself. Clear as mud?
Besides, I have a selfish motive, I like hearing your point of view and use it as a sounding board against all my own crazy notions.
I feel bad for you. Your luck of late has been really crappy. If I had a fourleaf clover I would send you one. In time it will get better. (this sounds like a bunch of cheesey crap but at least you know people care)
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