February 14, 2002
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Catharsis.
Ah, I feel much better.
I needed to do that blog below. It’s been brewing for a while now. I hate being used to hurt my friends. Feel free to comment on my uncontrollable rage and venom. I can take it.
So how was your Valentines Day?
Mine was quiet, since my hub has been living in a caravan at the back of someone else’s yard for the past week or so. Yeah, I threw him out. We were making each other very unhappy. But he is coming back on Sunday and I am not sure how I feel about it. I want the marriage to work, but I don’t want to keep beating my head against a wall until it’s bloody. So I spent last week all on my own, being a single mum.
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Good luck with deciding what to do with your hubster. I don't know who your blog below was about, but stalking is shitty, and this guy needs to get a life.
Have a good weekend, hon.
I feel really empathetic about your situation.
It must be very difficult to take all the responsibility for your daughter. It might be easier if you actually were a single mom, because then you wouldn't have the liability, or I mean husband, around to drain the little resources you have left at the end of the day.
I really hope that he comes rushing home saying "You are the best Mom in the world!" And then he can take Mouse out for the evening without calling it "babysitting". wretch.
And about your friend who is being stalked, I noticed that she hates it when people use the word "irregardless". I do too! I thought I was the only nerd who felt that way. You either say "regardless" or "irrespective". You don't get to merge them, dammit!
I'm hoping things will work out wonderfully for you. Either way. And yes, the "babysitting" thing made bile raise up in my throat too.
ps, thanks for your comment on my last post about my vandal daughter, it was the best!
You're a PEACH, a PEACH. One of these days I will get YOU to see that too. A BEEG Valentine smooch for YOU.
I hope everything works out for you. Thinking thoughts of happiness and peace for you
I think we may be living in parallel universes, SM. Good for you to have the balls to toss him, even if it was only for a week to start with. Single parenthood scares the bejeezus out of me. I think it's one reason I've stayed so long.
You inspire me. {V}
So how was the single mum life? Kick him right back out if he doesn't behave!!
Good luck with your husband this weekend. I hope everything works out the way it's supposed to. I admire all single moms, I know they're job is very hard.
Your friend has an ex that needs to get a life, definitely. I had a sit like that once... the ex calling me to harrass me and then his girlfriend getting on the phone telling me to leave her boyfriend alone. Sad, sad people.
I like to think that these are sick people, and we should show the same compassion that we would show a physically sick person. I'm not very good at it though.
My V-Day was great.
Hope everything works out for ya. G'luck.
~niks
my sis is a single mom. she wouldn't have it any other way, but she didn't know that until it happened...
good luck in everything. good weekend, too!
You are good enough.
things like this are always difficult and me saying "cheer up camper!" probably isn't gonna help.
You sound like a strong person anyway, which leads me to believe you'll make the right decision when the time comes.
I hope things work out for ya
I wish I had some sage advice. I don't. All I know is that a successful relationship requires equal committment.
And as for the single mom thing, I agree with you. I find it hard enough to do all I want being single!
Times are tough for everybody, you're not alone. Good luck for Sunday, though!
....I wish I was there with you to lend a personal ear. I'd get us a babysitter and then sit you down and feed you beer! I'm proud of you for doing this. Hope Sunday isn't too stressful for you.
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